Communication is a two-way process. Listening as well as speaking to one another is
something both doctor and patient must work on together. Being honest and open with each
other is also important. The more honest you are, the better your doctor can help you. You
can make the most of your doctor-patient communication with these suggestions:
Plan what you will say to your doctor about
your problem ahead of time. Your observations about a health problem can be invaluable in
making a diagnosis.
Repeat in your own words what the doctor
has told you. Use simple phrases like, "Do I hear you say that . . . ?" or
"My understanding of the problem is."
Take notes on what is wrong and what you
need to do.
If you are confused by medical terms, ask
for simple definitions. There is no need to be embarrassed by this. When a 
medication is prescribed, ask about its
possible side effects, its effectiveness, and how long it must be taken. If your doctor
discusses surgery, ask about alternatives, risks, and a second opinion.
Be frank with the doctor if any part of the
office visit is annoying, such as lengthy waiting time or discourteous staff. Be tactful
but honest.
Don't be afraid to voice your fears about
what you've heard. The doctor may be able to clarify any misconceptions.
Discuss anything you've done that has
relieved symptoms or that has made them worse.
Find out the best time to call your doctor
if you have any questions after you leave the office.
HEALTH AT HOME - Your Complete Guide to Symptoms, Solutions, and Self-Care © 1999 by Don R. Powell. American Institute for Preventive Medicine.
Date updated 02/01/99